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August 22, 2025
28 Av 5785
Parashat Re'eh
Deuteronomy 11:26 - 16:17)

Dear Friends,

Many things in life are not our choice. We do not choose the color of our eyes, our height, the things that interest us, the place we were born, and the good and bad things that occur in our lives. There is so much over which we have little or no control. Yet, in this Torah portion Re’eh, see (Deuteronomy 11:26-16:17), Moses lets us know that we have a choice of actions that we can take. He says “You can see that I am placing before you both a blessing and a curse. The blessing will come if you obey the commandments of the Lord your God which I am prescribing you today.” (Deuteronomy 11:26-27). He does the same again toward the end of Deuteronomy when the choice set before is to choose life over death and blessing over curse.

What does it mean to have choice? Bad things happen all the time; yet it is ourresponse that matters. Even in the most dangerous of times, we must not see ourselves as victims. The choice of how to respond in any given situation is always up to us. This is the time of year when we reflect upon our choices as we enter the month of Elul, the month that precedes Rosh Hashanah. Looking back is useful only insofar as we can use it to understand how we can move forward.

We cannot change the past, but we can change the future. Looking back we may have taken ourselves out of the equation, retreated from making a choice. However, looking forward, the path we take is up to us. How we manage the most difficult of situations is up to us. Support us as we travel through the narrow places.

A final story: I recently had the opportunity to hear the words of my paternal grandmother from a letter she wrote to my father, translated into English from German. The world was in chaos; her three children were on the run from Hitler’s forces in different places in the world. She had been cast out of the town her family had lived in for hundreds of years. Yet, the letter she wrote my father was not filled with angst; rather it was a description of hospitality and kindness. She made a choice. She embraced the blessing and chose life.

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Linda Shriner-Cahn

Mon, August 25 2025 1 Elul 5785